Amrit & Simrit's Wedding
Sikh Wedding Ceremony
Getting to know the ceremony
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An Anand Karaj is the traditional Sikh wedding ceremony performed at a Gurdwara (Sikh Temple). Anand Karaj translates to "Blissful Union" and the ceremony signifies the union of two souls in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib, the Sikh holy scripture, and the congregation. It emphasizes equality, love, and commitment between the bride and groom, who circle the Guru Granth Sahib four times as hymns and prayers are recited. Each round has its own significance, representing a different stage of married life and spiritual union. Lunch reception to follow ceremony
Entering the Gurdwara
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Upon entering the Gurdwara guests will find a coat and shoe room to their right and the langar hall (kitchen) to their left. Shoes are required to be removed while in the Gurdwara. Feel free to enjoy refreshments and socialize in the langar hall prior to the ceremony. The ceremony will occur in the Darbar Hall (main prayer room) upstairs. Head coverings are required while in the Darbar Hall out of respect. You will notice that members of the Sikh Community walk towards the altar at the front and bow before the Holy Book (Guru Granth Sahib). They then provide a small monetary donation for the Temple. Non-sikhs are not obligated to bow. If you do wish to participate, you are most welcome to do so. It is a cultural norm that men and women sit on opposite sides of the hall, but couples and families may choose to sit together. For the Anand Karaj, the Bride and Groom will be seated front and center of the altar.
Covering head/Removing shoes
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At the Gurdwara both men and women will be required remove their shoes prior to entering the temple and to cover their heads. There are plenty of shelves where your shoes can be stowed. Feel free to walk barefoot or in socks for your time at the temple. Gentlemen, we will be providing a rumaal (bandana) for you, or you’re welcome to bring your own. Please note that ballcaps and beanies are not considered appropriate headwear for the occasion. Ladies, we ask that you bring a scarf or shawl, also referred to as a chunni or dupata, to cover your head and shoulders while you are at the temple.
Dress Code
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For the Anand Karaj at the Gurdwara, formal and conservative attire is required. Our guests will be required to sit on the floor during the duration of the ceremony, so please wear pants or a dress that would allow you to do so comfortably. If you choose to wear a dress, please keep legs covered. If you are interested in wearing an Indian outfit, feel free to contact the Bride, Groom, or your Indian friends to borrow or to get help to purchase an Indian outfit. No alcohol or smoking is permitted at the Gurdwara or on the grounds