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FAQs

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What hotels do you recommend?

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We've done the research so you don't have to! Head over to our Travel page to see our recommended hotels, including any room blocks we've set up for our guests.

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What is the dress code?

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Black Tie Optional encouraged. We want you to feel free to go as formal as you'd like — tuxedos and gowns are absolutely encouraged — but a suit or cocktail dress is equally at home. Bottom line: look great, feel great, feel comfortable.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?

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Plus-ones and dates are by invitation only.

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Are children allowed?

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We love your little ones, we really do — but this is a grown-ups' night out! We ask that guests make childcare arrangements ahead of time so everyone can relax and enjoy the celebration to the fullest.

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Is there parking at the church?

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Yes! There is a large of street parking lot for those driving. It can be accessed from the front of the church on East 4th Street or the backside on East 5th Street.

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How long is the ceremony?

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The ceremony at Gate of Heaven will be approximately 30–45 minutes. It will not be a full mass.

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Is photography or videography allowed during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that our ceremony be completely unplugged. Please put your phones and cameras away so you can be fully present in the moment with us — we promise our photographer and videographer have it covered! There will be plenty of time for photos during the cocktail hour and reception.

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Will the cocktail hour be held indoors or outdoors?

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Our cocktail hour will be held outdoors (weather permitting)! October is one of our favorite times of year in New England — think crisp air, sun, and beautiful fall vibes. Just in case the breeze picks up, we'd suggest having a light layer or wrap on hand so you can stay comfortable.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Drinks are on us!

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I have a food allergy — can I make a special request?

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Absolutely! When formal invitations are sent out, you'll have the opportunity to let us know about any dietary restrictions or allergies. We want everyone to eat well and have a great time!

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What is there to do between the ceremony and cocktail hour?

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Good news — you won't have to look far! There are plenty of great spots within close walking distance of the church to grab a bite to eat and a celebratory drink while you wait for the festivities to kick off. Please check out the "Things To Do" page on the website for our recommendations! This is also a great time to check into your hotel if you do not have time before the ceremony. If you're feeling eager to get to Granite Links there is a Tavern and Crossing Nines to get a quick bite to eat/drink before heading over to the tent for the cocktail hour and reception.