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Attire options: Our reception is “Gatsby” themed. Cocktail attire is great! OR, we’d love to see women in 1920's flapper dresses, feathers, or pearls. To the men asking about Gatsby attire, ideas from the 20's being a topcoat, gold or silver tie, suspenders, or hats.
Attire options: Our reception is “Gatsby” themed. Cocktail attire is great! OR, we’d love to see women in 1920's flapper dresses, feathers, or pearls. To the men asking about Gatsby attire, ideas from the 20's being a topcoat, gold or silver tie, suspenders, or hats.

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FAQ's The Future Harris' have included some Frequently Asked Questions to help you plan accordingly for our big day!
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Are you registered? Where?

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We are lucky enough to have a home full of things we need. Our dream is to have a honeymoon in Spain. We are registered through this website (ZOLA) only, which is a honeymoon donation fund. While this registry may seem non-traditional, so are we! Any donations will contribute towards our dream honeymoon in Spain.

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

The number of invited guests and their dates will be specified on the invitations. We ask that you please do not bring a date unless it is specified on the invitation.

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Dress Code & Gatsby Attire

Answer

We ask that you please wear cocktail wedding attire. Interestingly, we are planning a "Gatsby-Themed" Reception. Cocktail attire is great! OR, we would love to see women in 1920's style flapper dresses, feathers, or pearls. To the men asking about Gatsby attire, ideas from the 20's being a topcoat, gold or silver tie, suspenders, or hats. The ceremony will be outside on the grass, cocktail hour will be inside, & the reception will be in a tent with walls. Please make sure you dress accordingly and consider your footwear choice on the grass.

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

While we love kids, this is an adult-only event. The only children present will be those in the wedding party.

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What beverages will be provided at the reception?

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Non-alcoholic beverages will be provided at cocktail hour and the reception. We will be having a CASH bar with beer, wine, seltzer's, and his & hers cocktails! Bartenders will accept cash tips. Please make sure you plan accordingly!

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When Should I RSVP by?

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Once you receive your invitation, please RSVP no later than October 1, 2023 so that we may give our final count to the venue & caterer. If you have not received your invitation by September 30, 2023 please reach out to Howie & Alyssa.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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TBD

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