You deserve a day off! Our wedding is a child-free day so you can really let down your hair. With the exception of our niece and nephew.
Chris and I want an "unplugged" ceremony. This means that we do not want anyone using their phones to take pictures of us during the ceremony. We want our photographers to get the best pictures they can, and unfortunately sometimes they can get blocked or miss a shot, if a guest is standing in the way or has their device up in the air. After the ceremony, you are free to use your phone!
No, you cannot. The catering company needs to know exactly how many guests are coming to set up tables, chairs and meal choices, well ahead of time. The dinner is sit down service and therefore last minute guests are non-negotiable.
The dress code is cocktail attire.