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Every love story is beautiful, but ours is our favorite.
Every love story is beautiful, but ours is our favorite.

Chelsea & Michael

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1) What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

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This event is semi-formal; earth tones and gem stone colors preferred (suits and cocktail dresses). This goes without saying, but no white attire permitted.

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2) How do I get to the venue? What is the parking situation?

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*For anyone who is booked a room with our hotel block, a shuttle service was included in your room booking to take you to the venue and back to the hotel at the end of the night. *For anyone who is driving directly to the venue, there is a lot across the street by the charter school / historic train station that you will park in. (📍 14 Market St, across from the Paterson Museum) For those arriving the day of the wedding, be sure to request an early check in.

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3) Can I bring a plus one?

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Only if indicated on your personal invitation. No write-ins permissible.

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4) Are kids welcome?

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While we love kids, no children are permitted. Our wedding is by invite and adult friendly only. We hope you understand our decision to make the wedding children-free and take the opportunity to let your hair down and celebrate!

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5) Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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Ceremony indoors

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6) What is the schedule for the day?

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4:00pm: Hotel Shuttle Pickup 4:30pm: Ceremony 5:30pm: Cocktail Hour 6:45pm: Reception 11:15pm: Venue Shuttle Pickup 12:00am-2:00am: After Party @ Hotel Bar attached to Calandra’s Mediteranean Restaurant

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7) Will there be special dietary food options?

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We will be offering buffet-style catering with multiple protein options including beef, chicken, seafood, vegan, and vegetarian options.

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8) Will there be an open bar or cash bar?

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Open bar with four signature cocktails: The Marvin (Vodka, Dry Vermouth, Olive Brine, & Bleu Cheese Olives) The Darwin (Bourbon & Coca Cola) The Brooklyn (Coconut Rum, Cranberry Juice, Pineapple Juice, & Lime) The Simon (Whiskey, Lemon Juice, Simple Syrup, & Maraschino Cherries)

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9) I’m visiting from out of town. What can I do in the area?

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Please feel free to utilize our "things to do" hotlink located on our website.

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10) Who can I contact if I have more questions?

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Bride: Chelsea DeStefano or Groom: Michael Weil *Please utilize our save the dates, wedding invitations, and wedding website to your own benefit as most questions can be answered there. On the wedding day, both the Bride and Groom will be unavailable / reachable via cell phone.

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