6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Wear something that makes you feel hot. More than jeans, less than cocktail attire. Have fun with it. If you typically see a top and think "IDK, it seems like a bit too much" it isn't too much for this event (girl, you are never too much!). This is not the time to wear Lululemon pants that are "so comfortable but you could never tell". Try something new, go wild.
Lone Palm is a longstanding neighborhood cocktail bar in Dolores Heights. You can expect really excellent cocktails, pizza & hot dogs from America's favorite eatery, Costco. You can read more about Lone Palm and it's rich history here: https://www.sfchronicle.com/wine/article/SF-s-Lone-Palm-bar-is-where-time-stands-still-13610857.php
4:00 pm - 6:30 pm
We will be having drinks and light bites on the grass at the memorial grove, so be mindful of footwear choices. Also, it's SF, it gets cold! Bring a jacket even if you think you won't need it :)
The National AIDS Memorial Grove is a gorgeous section of Golden Gate Park that celebrates how we care for each other. It's a space for healing and remembering those affected by AIDS as well as celebrating milestones and having big dance parties. We're thrilled to hold our ceremony in such a meaningful and beautiful place.
Fri, Oct 10, 2025, 7:00 pm - Sat, Oct 11, 2025, 1:00 am
Bring dancing shoes! Most of the reception will be outside so come prepared with a coat.
El Rio is an iconic and sacred queer space that carries a rich history within our community. We're so excited to celebrate our marriage with you here, and request that you be mindful of the importance this place holds for us. As such, it would mean so much to the bride if you brought your most salacious self to the dance floor.
12:30 pm - 6:00 pm
It's a park, just be warm and comfortable.
One thing we can all agree on is that budgets are moral documents. And within these documents, there's a major issue - a lack of funding for public spaces. Luckily, SF despite having an absolute trash pile for mayor, has some great parks. To celebrate just how important public spaces are to SF culture, we're going to have a fun afternoon hang. There will be drinks, music, and fun things cooking on our two portable grills. In this way, you will get to see not only SF's natural beauty, but also an up front and personal look into what it means to be a lesbian -- which is to have two portable grills.