6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Wear something that makes you feel hot. More than jeans, less than cocktail attire. Have fun with it. If you typically see a top and think "IDK, it seems like a bit too much" it isn't too much for this event (girl, you are never too much!). This is not the time to wear Lululemon pants that are "so comfortable but you could never tell". Try something new, go wild.
The Belvedere Room is located on the top floor of the Chorus apartment building. With panoramic views of the entire city, we thought this was a great way to introduce you to the city that we love. The space is indoor/outdoor, so remember to bring a jacket. There will be light bites and drinks. Come early to catch the sunset.
4:00 pm - 6:00 pm
We will be having drinks and light bites on the grass at the memorial grove, so be mindful of footwear choices. Also, it's SF, it gets cold! Bring a jacket even if you think you won't need it :)
The National AIDS Memorial Grove is a gorgeous section of Golden Gate Park that celebrates how we care for each other. It's a space for healing and remembering those affected by AIDS as well as celebrating milestones and having big dance parties. We're thrilled to hold our ceremony in such a meaningful and beautiful place.
Fri, Oct 10, 2025, 6:30 pm - Sat, Oct 11, 2025, 1:00 am
Bring dancing shoes! Most of the reception will be outside so come prepared with a coat.
El Rio is an iconic and sacred queer space that carries a rich history within our community. We're so excited to celebrate our marriage with you here, and request that you be mindful of the importance this place holds for us. As such, it would mean so much to the bride if you brought your most salacious self to the dance floor. The other Bride indicated she would bail on the whole event unless there were go-go dancers. As such, it would mean so much to the other bride if you brought cash to tip your dancers (and bar tenders). Moral of the story, bring cash (hot tip: it's fun to tip go-go dancers with a wad of one dollar bills).
12:30 pm - 6:00 pm
It's a park, just be warm and comfortable. Also bring a picnic blanket/chairs if you have them.
One thing we can all agree on is that budgets are moral documents. And within these documents, there's a major issue - a lack of funding for public spaces. Luckily, SF despite having an absolute trash pile for mayor, has some great parks. To celebrate just how important public spaces are to SF culture, we're going to have a fun afternoon hang. In the first edition of this website, you may have noticed that we mentioned Ally grilling on her portable grills -- the copy was elite, but the effort, simply too much. So, we're going to 86 the grills (86 grills, chef!) and invite folks to stop at a local shop, restaurant, etc to bring snacks, drinks, anything you want to sip/munch on for a couple hours. Ally highly recommends going to Bi-Rite and getting a Turkey sandwich. And someone should also try their chocolate mousse - it looks great.