To Have & To Know

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How and when should I let you know I'm coming?

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Kindly RSVP by June 30th. To navigate to the RSVP section, please select "RSVP" in the menu section of this website and follow the prompts within.

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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Our Nuptial Mass (wedding ceremony) will begin promptly at 2:30 pm, we kindly ask all guests to arrive no later than 2:15 pm to be ushered to your seats.

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What should I wear on your big day?

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Fantastic question - we ask that you wear your best semi-formal garden party attire. Knowing this, we would love to see you in bright colors, florals, and/or patterns.

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Do I have a plus one?

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We’re so excited to celebrate this special moment with our closest friends and family. Due to the intimate nature of our ceremony and limited space, we’re only able to accommodate the guests named on the invitation. We truly appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate together!

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Are children welcome?

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If your children are listed on the invitation, they are warmly welcome to join us. While we’re keeping the celebration mostly adults-only, we completely understand that infants need to stay close and are absolutely welcome. Thank you so much for your understanding!

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Are you registered? If so, where?

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Yes, please check out the "Registry" tab in the menu bar -- we are registered at Crate & Barrel, Amazon, Anthropologie, and within Zola. We’re so grateful to celebrate with you and your presence on our special day is the greatest gift. Please know gifts are not expected, but if you feel inclined, they are genuinely appreciated!

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Do you have any hotel or airport recommendations?

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Great question, yes! Please select "Plan Your Trip" in the menu section for all information regarding hotel accommodations and airport information. Addresses for all wedding weekend events are published for your convenience within the "Our Celebration Schedule" tab.

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Is there parking for the ceremony and reception?

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There is plenty of parking available at both the ceremony and reception. However, cars cannot be left overnight, so please plan accordingly. We encourage guests to designate a driver, carpool, or take advantage of rideshare apps to get to and from the celebration safely!

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Can I take photos at your wedding and post them on social media?

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Since our ceremony will be held in a church, we kindly ask that all phones remain silenced and put away during the Mass. We’ve hired a wonderful photographer to capture every special moment. After the Mass and at the reception, feel free to take as many photos as you’d like! Don’t forget to tag Allison and Alex, and use our hashtag: #STRUELOVE — we can’t wait to see your memories!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please note this on your RSVP and contact us personally at aastrueder@gmail.com to discuss further.