FAQs

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Where do I RSVP and when do I have to RSVP by?

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We are utilizing the Zola RSVP tracker so there will not be an RSVP card included in your invitation. We ask that you please RSVP on the website by June 30, so we can communicate the correct numbers to our vendors!

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I can't find where I RSVP

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As mentioned above, click the RSVP tab in the top navigation bar. It can be a little confusing because the website links the events tab to the RSVP tab so you will see the "Ceremony" event and "Cocktail Hour" event pop up but you don't have to RSVP to those. Continue to the next event by using the button at the lower right hand side of the screen and select "next event". You can then RSVP. If you select will attend, you will be prompted to select your dinner choice! All are delicious, trust us we tasted them all!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes!!!! Please let us know when you RSVP in the comments section so we can let our venue know ahead of time!

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Where are you registered?

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We are registered at Target, Amazon and Crate & Barrel! You can access our registries in the "registry" tab and click Target, Amazon and Crate & Barrel to go directly to our registries.

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Can I bring my kids?

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We love your kids!!! However, we have chosen to have an adult only reception. We want you to be able to enjoy and take the opportunity to let your hair down and celebrate in style!

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Can I bring a date?

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In order to keep our guest list on track we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If your invitation included “and guest,” you are welcome to bring a date. If it didn’t, we encourage you to just bring your dancing shoes and come ready to have a great time with friends and family!

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What is the dress code?

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We hope that you will join us in wearing semi-formal attire. It's not everyday we get married, right!?! So rummage through your closet for your favorite dress, suit or dress shirt and tie... or heck, go all out and buy something new, it's up to you! We just can't wait to see you dressed up and ready to party!

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Is your wedding indoor, outdoor, or both?

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Both! Weather permitting, our ceremony and the cocktail hour will be outside, with the reception to follow inside. Don't worry, we have a Plan B if there is weather!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00PM! No one wants to be "those people" that walk in just before the bride so we ask that you arrive and are seated before 2:45PM. You will have to park and walk to the ceremony site, which is just off the clubhouse, so make sure you add that into your travel timeline! Our DJ will be playing music starting 30 minutes before the ceremony so you can sit, relax, and enjoy until the ceremony starts!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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As much as we would love to see more pictures, we trust that our amazing photographers will capture all the moments perfectly. So we ask that you unplug and are fully present during our ceremony!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Heck yes!!! Please remember to tip the bartenders!

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Will there be transportation options after the reception?

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There will be! You can always use Uber, Lyft. or even a cab!! BUT knowing that it's Mile of Music weekend, those may be very busy! With that, we have decided to avoid the Downtown Appleton and will have a one time shuttle to the Doubletree by Hilton in Neenah at the end of the night. It's okay to leave your vehicle at the golf course overnight, however; there's no shuttle back in the morning so you'll have to plan accordingly!