To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the event as soon as possible. However, the deadline is September 26th, 2025. If we don't hear from you, we'll take it as a no.
Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited or otherwise mentioned on your invitation.
As much as we love your little ones, our wedding is exclusively for adults.
We’re keeping it chill — literally and figuratively! The ceremony and reception will be held outdoors, so dress comfortably for fall weather. Classy casual attire is fine! Fall colors are encouraged! Feel free to wear a dress, nice jeans, sweaters, flannels, boots, or anything you’d wear to a cozy autumn hangout. No need to dress up if you don't want to — just bring good vibes (and maybe a jacket!). ** Update for the girls! Most are planning to wear a fall colored dress.
Parking for both the ceremony and reception will be at the Marina. You can leave your car in the same parking spot or move it if you'd prefer- it's a brief walk between the two locations. The ceremony will take place at Wedding Pointe, located at the end of the parking lot. Look for the sign that says Wedding Pointe and follow the sidewalk down to the seating area. The reception will follow under the white tent nearby.
Please be seated at the ceremony location by 3pm. Arriving at 2:45 would be best.
Simple answer, no!!!! We ask that you kindly put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony and all special events during the reception. We want you to be present with us in the moment. We have a professional photographer and videographer capturing these moments for us. Feel free to take photos and videos of your time at the reception - just don't capture us if we aren't aware!
Please do not ruin the day by trying to take photos or videos because you think you can do a better job than the professionals we've hired. We've made this choice for a reason- please respect it. MORE IMPORTANTLY, there is a foster child in our home who absolutely cannot appear in any photos or videos. If she does, and anything is posted or shared, it could seriously jeopardize her placement with us. That's not just crossing a line- it could have devastating consequences. Think about that before you pull out your phone! ps - Alexis is crazy and will evict you personally... and if that doesn't work, Sadie and Molly will handle it. They've been training!
Out of respect for our privacy, we ask that nothing directly related to us be posted on social media without our permission. Additionally, DO NOT PHOTOGRAPH SHAYLA!
PLEASE don’t ask to hold Shayla or come up and touch her - regardless of your title in her life. We do not want to pass her around. October is RSV season, and for her safety, she will have designated caregivers during the wedding and reception. If you haven’t been specifically asked by the bride and groom to help care for her, please don’t put anyone in the uncomfortable position of having to say no. Even a common cold can be dangerous for infants. And please remember - it is NEVER okay to kiss someone else's baby without permission (and you don't have permission)!! Thank you for understanding.