Jewish Wedding Traditions FAQ

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What is the Ketubah?

Answer

The Ketubah is a Jewish marriage contract which highlights Alexis and Sam's commitment to building a home based on love, Jewish tradition, and mutual respect for another. It was signed before their wedding ceremony by two non-related witnesses.

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What is a Chuppah?

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The Chuppah symbolizes the home that Alexis and Sam will create together in their married life. It's open walls signify that family and friends, old and new, will always be welcome.

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Why circle the groom seven times?

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Alexis will circle Sam seven times. The circling is a physical enactment of the wedding ring, conveying unity and completeness. Seven blessings are recited over the second cup of wine. These blessings include praise for G-d, a prayer for peace in Jerusalem and ask the married life be filled with joy.

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How are the rings exchanged?

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Alexis and Sam exchange wedding bands as a sign of their commitment to one another. In accordance with Jewish tradition, these rings are unembellished and placed on their right index finger, which is believed to be connected by a special line directly to the heart.

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Why two cups of wine?

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Two cups of wine, one symbolizing marriage proposal and the other the nuptials, are consumed. Each is deserving of its own attention and cup. Alexis and Sam share both cups symbolizing the life commitment that they make to their shared future, including its joys and sorrows.

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Why break the glass?

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At the conclusion of the ceremony, Sam will break a glass under his foot in memory of the destruction of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem.