FAQs

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What is the dress code for the wedding ceremony?

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Since our wedding ceremony will take place during a Catholic mass, we ask that guests wear "Sunday best" or formal attire that is modest and respectful. Please choose clothing that honors the sacred setting and allows you to move comfortably as you stand, sit, and kneel throughout the service.

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What is the significance of the 'Nuptial Mass'?

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A Nuptial Mass is a wedding ceremony celebrated within the context of the Holy Eucharist. For us, the Mass is the highest form of prayer. We’ve chosen this because we believe that our love for each other is a reflection of God’s love for the world. Most importantly, the very first thing we will do after being pronounced husband and wife is receive the Eucharist together. It’s our way of saying that Christ is the 'daily bread' that will nourish and sustain our marriage through the years ahead.

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I’m not Catholic. Can I receive Holy Communion?

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We are so honored to have you with us! In the Catholic Church, the Eucharist is a sign of our total 'oneness' in faith, life, and worship. Because we are not yet fully united in our beliefs, we respectfully ask Catholics who are not in a state of grace as well as those not in full communion with the Catholic Church to remain in their pews or come forward with arms crossed over their chest for a blessing. We look forward to the day when all Christians may be one at the altar.

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Can I take photos or videos during the Mass?

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We’ve hired a wonderful photographer to capture the day so that you can be fully present with us. We kindly ask that you keep phones and cameras tucked away during the ceremony—it helps keep the focus on the sacredness of the moment and ensures no one’s view is blocked by a screen!

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What type of transportation is provided?

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For guests staying at the Hilton Garden Inn in Beaver Valley, we ask that you arrange your own transportation to St. Bernard's Church for the ceremony. The drive takes approximately 40 minutes from Beaver Valley. Following the reception, we'll provide complimentary shuttle service back to the hotel, with shuttles departing at ___ and ___.

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What hotel arrangements are available?

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We've arranged a room block at the Hilton Garden Inn Pittsburgh Area Beaver Valley with special discounted rates for our guests. Since our reception will be held in Beaver, this hotel offers convenient accommodations for those traveling from out of town.

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What if my child gets tired during the reception party?

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We've designated the Bridal Suite downstairs at Beaver Station as a comfortable retreat for children and parents who need a quiet break. We're happy to set up pack and plays if little ones need to rest, and we can coordinate any additional comfort items you'd like to bring along. Please don't hesitate to reach out—we're here to ensure every guest, young and old, feels welcomed and cared for throughout the celebration.

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What’s a cookie table and can I contribute?

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It’s a Pittsburgh tradition to have along with cake where homemade cookies from the bride and groom’s family and friends are put together in a large display and shows the melding of the families. We would be overjoyed to have your cookies in our celebration. If you would like to contribute please contact Hailey at 610 463 6859, to coordinate what you will be making and drop offs. Cookies can be dropped off anytime after 8am on Saturday at the Beaver Station.

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Is there accessible bathrooms at the venue and rooms at the hotel?

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Yes, the Beaver Station has accessible bathrooms located on the same floor as the dining hall. Our hotel also offers rooms with mobility-accessible features, including grab rails in the shower and by the toilet.