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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Aleni Stoakes and Andrew Duncan
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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

As soon as you know your availability, we invite you to RSVP via our website! The deadline to RSVP is May 21, 2026. If you do not RSVP by this date, we will mark you as “unavailable to attend” as we have to provide accurate numbers to our vendors. Your presence will be missed on our special day!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Please arrive 15-30 minutes prior to the ceremony start time to find parking and your seat.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We ask that you kindly put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony. Please do not record videos or take pictures during our ceremony. We want you all present with us in the moment. We have a professional photographer that will capture the ceremony for us. Other than the ceremony, yes! Please feel free to take pictures and videos during the reception!

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outside, and the reception will take place indoors.

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What is the dress code?

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Please visit the “Guest Attire” section of this website to see all the details.

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Are kids invited?

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We love your little ones! However, we decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event (the only exceptions are the little ones in our wedding party/immediate family). Invitations will be specific and will include the names of the children who are invited. We hope you understand and enjoy a night off!

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Can I bring a guest/plus one not listed on the invitation?

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If you received a plus one, your guest’s name is listed on your invitation and will appear under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding as an intimate event with family and close friends. Thank you for your understanding!