In August 2011, Tommy and Ainsley met in Spokane while attending graduate school. Tommy was enrolled at Gonzaga University School of Law while Ainsley was at Washington State University. They were introduced by mutual friends. They currently live in Olympia with their Silky Terrier, Missy. Tommy is a lawyer at the Administrative Office of the Courts, and Ainsley is a speech-language pathologist at the Shelton School District. They enjoy running, watching sports, playing golf, walking their dog, exploring the city, and hanging out with friends and family. Tommy is a Hufflepuff, and Ainsley is a Slytherin. Tommy proposed on 12/18/18.