TJ and Judy met at work. He was working as a nurse and she was working front desk. While TJ maintains that Judy stared at him on the train one day, (so false), their friendship actually started when Judy started to say hi to TJ in efforts to get him to open up. Hello turned into corny jokes and maybe a little more flirting than was allowed at work. Finally, fed up with their flirting, their boss gave her TJ's number. She didn't use it until the outrage of a Yankee hitting a home run during the playoffs gave her enough courage to text. From there, the conversations were non-stop, but there was one big problem. TJ wouldn't date anyone from his work place. The two decided to stay friends and continued their daily chats. Then, one afternoon, TJ realized that he could lose this amazing person and so he asked Judy out. That was about 4 and a half years ago and they've been together ever since.