We understand plans change - please call or text us ASAP at 408-710-6750.
Our celebrations will be adults-only. Thank you for understanding — we hope this gives everyone a chance to relax and enjoy the weekend! Rancho Bernardo Inn recommends Sitterwise for childcare services: https://sitterwise.com/
Friday Welcome Event: Cocktail attire. Dresses/jumpsuits, dress shirt & slacks (blazer & tie optional). This will take place outdoors in an open courtyard. Saturday Ceremony & Reception: Black-Tie Optional. Tuxes welcome but not required; floor-length or midi dresses encouraged. Colors and patterns are invited - please no white. The ceremony is outdoors on a grass lawn; cocktail hour is on a covered patio; reception is indoors.
We are using Zola as our registry management tool - you can access it directly on this site under the "Registry" tab. Certain items may direct you to other sites to purchase (e.g. Williams Sonoma, Crate and Barrel, etc.) but please be sure to mark the item as purchased on Zola to prevent duplicates. Thank you in advance for your generosity - it means a great deal to us!
Your formal invitation will indicate if a guest is included. We wish we could celebrate with everyone, but we have capacity restrictions to abide by. If you're not sure whether you can bring a guest, reach out to the bride or groom directly.