FAQs
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Can we bring our kids?
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We love your little ones, but this celebration will be an adults-only event with the exception of two very close family members. Think of it as your night off — dinner, dancing, and no bedtime routine required!
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What is the dress code for the wedding?
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Attire: Coastal Formal Think polished and elegant with a nod to summer. All: Bring sunglasses, sunscreen, dancing shoes, and a light sweater or wrap for the evening. Ladies: Summer formal, flowy midi or maxi dresses are encouraged, though elegant, formal shorter dresses are also welcome; stilettos are not recommended due to grass/sand areas. Men: Plan on wearing a suit with breathable, lighter-weight blend fabrics and dress shoes.
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When should I book accommodation? EARLY!
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This is a popular time of year to visit San Diego so please book your accommodation EARLY! Even before booking flights, especially if you want to stay in the circled map area (on the Travel page)
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Is there parking at the venue?
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There is a parking lot available for our guests, but spaces must be reserved in advance! If you plan to drive to the wedding, please indicate this in your RSVP so we can pre-purchase a spot for you! If you won’t be driving, ride-share options like Uber and Lyft are easy and convenient alternatives. ((Street parking is likely unavailable due to it being a busy weekend in August next to a popular surf beach))
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GUEST COOKBOOK
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Hello Everyone! Cooking has always been one of the ways we feel most connected—to each other and to the people we love. Mike It brings comfort on hard days, joy during celebrations, and meaning to everyday moments. As we build our life together, we look forward to cooking your recipes and thinking of you often—remembering the meals, memories, and connections we share. How to Contribute Please add a recipe that is meaningful to you—anything from a favorite weeknight meal to a special family dish. You can find instructions and upload to our shared folder here: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1HulvY3IwKbP-oWUTcPANd6V9VK4pvf6C?usp=drive_link Prefer a hard copy? You’re welcome to bring a printed recipe to the wedding—we’ll make sure it gets added to our collection.
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What airport should I fly into?
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(See Travel & Lodging Page for more details) San Diego International Airport (SAN) is the closest — approx 20 min rideshare from Pacific Beach and has a direct flight from London Heathrow (LHR) on British Airlines/American Airlines Los Angeles International Airport (LAX is also an option, for those coming from abroad, its approximately 2.5 hours drive -SHUTTLE SERVICES from LAX to San Diego, either to Old Town Transit Center or hotel depending -TRAIN: Pacific Surfliner ( https://www.amtrak.com/pacific-surfliner-train ) You will have to ride share to Union Station in LA then take the train to Old Town Transit center, then rideshare. Beautiful ride along the coast -Flight from LAX to SAN (could book something on Southwest or a cheap airline) it takes about 20 min to fly -Rideshare apps: Lyft and Uber