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July 1, 2023
Schenevus, NY

Deanna & Michael

FAQs

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Are you going to have a registry?

Answer

For the most part, your attendance is our gift, and we don't want guests to feel obligated to spend any money on us past the cost of attendance! For those who are interested in giving, our registry is now live on our site!

Question

I have young kids - can I bring them?

Answer

Yes! We love children and they are welcome at any event you'll be at. If you are interested in discussing child-care arrangements of any sort, please reach out to Dalia Abrams (birthpower@bellsouth.net) who is an expert in those things!

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Are plus-ones allowed?

Answer

In an effort to keep our event as small and intimate as possible, we are not allowing a general plus-one unless it is explicitly noted in your invite. If you're unsure - please ask!

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What is a commitment ceremony?

Answer

Mike and Deanna have been dating for eight and a half years, and want to spend the rest of their lives together. They're polyamorous, so to align with their values, they will not be getting legally married at this time, because marriage in this country is something you can only do with one person at a time. As such, legal marriage privilege monogamous relationships, and that is not the kind of relationship we have! However, it's still important to Mike and Deanna to be public about their relationship, and to make it clear that they are part of each other's families. In order to ritualize their commitment to each other (and throw a fun party for their friends and family), they will be having a commitment ceremony!