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May 16, 2026
Altmar, NY

Abigail & Tyler

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We’ve put together answers to some commonly asked questions to help make your day with us as smooth and enjoyable as possible!
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Is there a dress code?

Answer

The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal. We encourage knee-length or midi dresses for the ladies and dark colored suits with ties for the gentlemen. Please reserve the color white for the bride!

Question

I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Yes, the chefs at Tailwater Lodge are able to make our special menu meet with your dietary needs and restrictions.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

Answer

Yes! You can find all special events on our schedule page with dates, times, and locations listed for your convenience! We hope to see you there!

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

Unfortunately we are unable to accommodate additional guests. Due to limited space and seating, only those named on your invitation will be able to attend.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?

Answer

Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for details of our hotel block at Tailwater Lodge.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes! We're happy to provide an open bar for all our guests, featuring complimentary drinks throughout the welcome party, cocktail hour, and reception. Let's raise a glass and celebrate our special day together!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

Yes, there will be parking available at Tailwater Lodge.

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What happens if it rains?

Answer

Rain or shine, the celebration continues! All of our wedding festivities are inside!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

Answer

We kindly request that guests do not take photos during the ceremony. You will have plenty of opportunities to take all the pictures you want throughout the weekend. We have professional photographers to capture every moment so we can unplug and enjoy!

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

Even though we do love kids, unfortunately due to limited space and seating we are only available to accommodate those listed on your invitation.

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