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In light of the Delta variant, we'll be following all Oregon Health Authority guidelines + require that masks are worn indoors and outdoors (regardless of vaccination status) when you're not actively eating/drinking. This may change at any time and will keep you updated
In light of the Delta variant, we'll be following all Oregon Health Authority guidelines + require that masks are worn indoors and outdoors (regardless of vaccination status) when you're not actively eating/drinking. This may change at any time and will keep you updated
November 21, 2021
Troutdale, OR

Abbie & Adam

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We've put together a list of Frequently Asked Questions so that you can find it in one convenient location. We figure if one person is wondering maybe others are too. We hope to make our celebration as convenient as possible for those that want to attend!
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Can I attend multiple events? (The Virginia Celebration, The Missouri Celebration, and the Portland Celebration)

Answer

Yes, just let us know which ones you would like to attend and we will make it happen. However, we will need to limit the number of guests due to capacity with our venues as follows: Virginia, no max currently Missouri, 80 guests Portland, 100 guests

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The website says I am not on the guest list. How do I request an RSVP?

Answer

On the RSVP page simply put your name where it requests. If you see a message that says you are not on the list, try and put in the name of your spouse, partner, or significant other. If you still get the message that says you are not on the list simply ask to contact the couple at the provided link. We will receive an email with your request and grant you access to the list if we still have capacity. Please be sure to include in your note to the couple which events you are interested in attending.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Feel free to RSVP here on our site ASAP (physical Save the Dates + formal invitations coming soon). Don't hesitate to let us know either way, this will help us plan better. And help us help you have a good time.

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Are you registered? Where?

Answer

Yes, we are registered for some items through Zola (this website), Crate and Barrel, Amazon, and Modern Tribe. Please use the above navigational bar to head over to the registry page and find the links to the various registry sites. For the local Virginians, we have a physical registry set up at Colonial Collectibles in Warsaw.

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Are kids welcome?

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We are not going to say that you can't bring your kids. Just know that we will not have any designated child care available and that you will have to be responsible for your own children while adults are having a great time!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes, please check out our travel and accommodations page. Also, there should be a ton of Airbnbs available in the Troutdale, Wood Village, and Gresham areas. If you would like to go in on one with someone else from out of town but don't know who to ask, simply contact Adam or Abbie and we would be happy to make a shidduch (some recommendations). Also there should be an adequate number of regular bed and breakfasts to choose from.

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

If you would like to bring a date, please let us know. (All Adam's guests can bring a +1, as long as they are happy to be there!)

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Yes please do, we want to make sure you are fed well.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

For the pre-wedding, engagement celebrations it is pretty casual. For the Troutdale Wedding it is semi-formal. Think classy, vintage cocktail party.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is plenty of parking at any of the events for no cost. Additionally, public transportation is available all over the Portland Metro area and you should have no trouble getting to any of the events if you don't want to rent a vehicle.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The wedding ceremony will take place at 4:00 PM. We would advise you to be there at least 15 minutes early. But you can join us as soon as 3:00 PM at the Troutdale House. Cocktails and drinks will be available at the main bar. Exiting time will begin at 9:00 PM. (You don't have to go home, but you can't stay there!)

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

Answer

Yes, check out the schedule for all the events that we will be hosting in conjunction with our wedding. We will be hosting celebrations in Warsaw, Virginia (July 18th) - St. Louis, Missouri (August 21st) - And a full weekend of events beginning Friday evening through Monday morning (Weekend of November 21st).

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