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What should I wear?What should I wear?

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For the Hindu ceremony, guests are welcome to wear traditional Indian attire if they’d like — sarees, lehengas, kurta pajamas, or sherwanis are beautiful! You’re also welcome to wear dresses, suits, or other formal attire. For the reception, Indian/formal attire is encouraged. For men, think suits or a crisp dress shirt with a tie. For women, long dresses, elegant midi dresses, lehengas, sarees or dressy jumpsuits are perfect. If you would like to wear an Indian outfit, please check out these two websites below for some affordable options! https://www.lashkaraa.com https://www.houseofindya.com

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Are there colors I shouldn’t wear?Are there colors I shouldn’t wear?

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We’d love for everyone to dress colorfully! For the ceremony, please avoid red or maroon, as those are traditional bridal colors. For the reception, we kindly ask guests to not wear white, since the bride will be wearing it.

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What is the dress code for the welcome party?What is the dress code for the welcome party?

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Dress Code: Dressy Casual Sundresses, midi dresses, dress pants, and collared shirts are encouraged. Indian and non-Indian outfits are welcome! No need for formal attire — just come comfortable and ready to kick off the celebration with us!

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What is the timeline for the wedding dayWhat is the timeline for the wedding day

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Our Hindu ceremony will take place from 2:00–3:30 PM, followed by a short break before the cocktail hour and reception beginning at 5:00PM. During the break, feel free to relax at the hotel, grab a bite, change outfits, or explore the area. We’ll see you back at the venue in the evening, ready to celebrate with food, drinks, and dancing!

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Do I have to attend cocktail hour?Do I have to attend cocktail hour?

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We completely understand that our wedding day is a full celebration, and you may wish to rest a bit before the evening festivities. If you decide to skip cocktail hour, we kindly ask that you arrive at the venue by 6:00 PM to be seated for dinner.

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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by July 31, 2026. This will help us give our vendors the final headcount and ensure everything is perfect for our big day!

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What if I don’t RSVP?What if I don’t RSVP?

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We kindly ask everyone to RSVP by the deadline (July 31st) so we can provide accurate numbers to our vendors. If we don’t receive your RSVP, we’ll sadly assume you’re unable to attend and will need to mark you as a “no.”

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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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While we love all your little ones, we are keeping the guest list for kids limited to close family and close friends. If you have any questions about bringing children, please reach out to us directly.

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What is the best way to get to the venue?What is the best way to get to the venue?

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If you’re flying in, the closest airport is Des Moines International Airport (DSM). Guests can rent a car or take a rideshare to the hotel and venue. Please see additional travel details on our travel page.

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What time should I arrive?What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will start promptly at 2:00 PM. We suggest arriving 15–20 minutes early so you have time to get seated and comfortable before it begins.

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Where are you registered?Where are you registered?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! For those who would like to give a gift, we are registered at Zola — please check out our registry page if you’d like. We’re so grateful for anything you choose to share and can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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What will happen during the ceremony?What will happen during the ceremony?

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We’re excited to celebrate both of our cultures with you! The ceremony will include Hindu rituals like lighting the sacred fire and exchanging garlands, along with American traditions such as exchanging rings and vows, and readings from the Bible — a beautiful fusion of love, family, and unity.

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Will you be having pre-wedding celebrations and ceremonies?Will you be having pre-wedding celebrations and ceremonies?

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Indian weddings often include several days of pre-wedding celebrations! We’ve decided to keep those smaller ceremonies private with close family, and we’ll be celebrating our main wedding day and reception with all of you. Thank you for understanding and sharing in our joy!

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What if I have dietary restrictions?What if I have dietary restrictions?

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We completely understand that some guests may have dietary restrictions due to religious or personal reasons. When you RSVP, you’ll have the option to list any restrictions so we can ensure your meal meets your needs. We kindly ask that you list only restrictions, not preferences.

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What if I’ve RSVP’d ‘yes’, but now can no longer come?What if I’ve RSVP’d ‘yes’, but now can no longer come?

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We know life happens! If you’ve already RSVP’d but can no longer attend, just reach out and let us know at your earliest convenience so we can update our plans with our vendors.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?Do you have a hotel block for guests?

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Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for details of our hotel block.

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Will there be a shuttle?Will there be a shuttle?

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Yes! We will be providing shuttle service for guests staying in our hotel block. To help keep the day running smoothly and on schedule, we kindly ask that shuttle guests arrive on time for departures. Additional transportation details can be found on the Travel page.