It wasn't until Molly was on her way to seek her fortune in Germany that the two first decided to use the terms "boyfriend" and "girlfriend." A friend of Brad's shattered all perceptions of coyness by telling Brad, "if you've been talking to her nearly every day for a month, she's your girlfriend." Molly played it cool by stopping in Pittsburgh on her way abroad, and Brad raised the stakes by taking an audition in Europe which included a week-long stop in Berlin. From there, the two were committed to each other. Brad proposed to Molly nearing their fourth year together, on a secluded Bodega Bay beach with a surprise picnic orchestrated with Molly's parents.