We know it's not traditional, it's not the way it's done. But instead of a wedding list, we'd like a bit of sun. Please do not think of us as rude, please do not take offense. We do not want to upset you, that's not the way it's meant. We've lived together quite a while, and all the bills are paid. We've got out plates, our pots and pans, our plans have all be made. So if you'd like to give a gift to help us celebrate, some money for our honeymoon we would appreciate.