"We hope you can join us in celebrating our marriage - your presence is the best gift you could give us! Please do not feel obligated to give anything else. But should you feel inclined, we are very much looking forward to a honeymoon and any contribution towards that will always be sincerely appreciated. If you are inclined to contribute to this fund but would prefer to do so in person, we will also have a Honeymoon Fund jar at the reception. We also have registries set up with Amazon and Walmart, for those inclined to get us something more tangible."