We love traveling together to make memories and can't wait to get away to celebrate our marriage. Chip in to send us on our way in style.

It's no secret that education has become incredibly expensive. Ray is crossing his fingers that Little Ray will follow his dad's footsteps to West Point, but Julia fears he'll go to college in the pricey Big Apple like his mom. These funds will be deposited into Little Ray's 529 college savings account. And since that means less tuition for Mom and Dad to pay, gifts towards his education are really huge presents for us.

We got engaged at Disney World, so it's only right we return—with a third member in tow! We're saving up for little Raymond's first trip to the most magical (and possibly overstimulating) place on Earth. Your gift helps us pay for airfare, hotel, and park tickets so we can share a special family milestone, introduce Raymond to the magic, and probably buy a ridiculous number of mouse-shaped snacks.

Ray's trusty, sporty, manual-transmission Mazda has served him well for many years. Sadly, the backseat is getting overcrowded with dogs and carseats. Not to mention, Julia's stick shift driving skills are "limited" at best. This fund will help us purchase a new family car with plenty of space for our growing family and a Julia-friendly automatic transmission.

We love hosting friends and family, and we're excited to create a space that makes it even more enjoyable. Julia has been dreaming of an open-plan kitchen so she can tend to host duties and still stay in the conversation (she just can’t help herself). Your gift will help us transform our home into a warm, welcoming space that’s perfect for gathering and making memories.

Help us keep the peace (and the floors clean) with the gift of weekly home cleaning! Your support means more time for us to enjoy being newlyweds and fewer debates about vacuuming. Julia thought the baby would be the messy one… but it turns out Big Ray hasn't made his bed since his cadet days. This gift helps us keep things tidy without having to follow anyone around with a mop!

We have been told countless times how important it is to have a weekly date night, especially after marriage and kids. But when doing so requires paying for a pricey restaurant meal, it's all too easy to say "we don't really NEED that, let's save money and stay home". Knowing we have these funds dedicated to getting us out of the house and on a date will make it so much easier for us to "never stop dating your spouse".

We have been told countless times how important it is to have a weekly date night, especially after marriage and kids. But when doing so requires paying for a babysitter, it's all too easy to say "we don't really NEED to go out, let's save money and stay home". Knowing we have these funds dedicated to getting us out of the house - alone! - on a date will make it so much easier for us to "never stop dating your spouse".

Let's be honest - Rosco is everyone's favorite member of our family. And we don't blame them! And soon, Rosco will get a new little pup brother - another Korean Jindo who we plan to name Iroh. This fund helps cover their care—from training classes to vet visits and tail-wagging adventures. Not to mention treats! Rosco and Iroh will be living their best lives thanks to you.

As we settle into life as a new family, we’ve created a small fund for the ever-growing list of essentials for our son, little Raymond. Who knew babies needed this much stuff? Wipe warmers, snot suckers - you name it. And just when we think we have it all, something new pops up. But TBH, that butt paste spatula IS quite helpful. Your support means the world to us as we navigate this adorable chaos!

We love exploring local restaurants together when we travel. Treat us to dinner on our honeymoon!

We're so excited to celebrate this next chapter! If you'd like to help us take a much-needed breather, we've created a resort fund to enjoy some restful moments (and maybe a full night's sleep!). Your gift supports a little escape to recharge, reconnect, and return refreshed for all the joy ahead. Thank you for your love and support!

We’re diving into newlywed life—literally! Help us make a splash on our honeymoon with some unforgettable watersports adventures, from snorkeling and paddleboarding to maybe even trying something a little wild (we have had Baby Shark on repeat for months - will we embark on a quest to meet Grandpa Shark? Your gift helps us soak up the sun and create wave after wave of amazing memories!

We'll be heading into nature on our honeymoon, and while Ray loves camping under the stars, Julia's more at home with a cozy bed and hot shower. Help us find the perfect middle ground with new camping gear that adds a touch of comfort to our wild adventure. Your gift will help us enjoy nature and keep the glam in glamping!

After welcoming a baby and planning a wedding, we are definitely carrying around a fair amount of stress! Treat us to a deep tissue massage to help us refresh and destress.

Exploring museums on our honeymoon is a must. As we know, Ray is a history buff - especially when it comes to military history. Julia may not share his passion for battle strategies and historical artillery—but she does love Ray, so she’s all in. Your gift will help us visit some of the best museums along the way, turning Ray’s dream tour into a shared adventure (with plenty of gift shop stops for Julia).