The wedding will start with or without us. Flying by plane is easier than rowing a boat.

We want everyone who can make it to eat as locals. We've never had Fijian food and hope everyone enjoys a first time experience.

Photos capture the special moments we want to remember from our wedding (but shoving cake in each other's faces is not one of them). We look forward to sharing the photos from the big day with all of you.

Patrick looks forward to the wedding because he likes to eat cake. Nettie's only request is that the wedding cake is not a carrot cake (which is his favorite). Who in the world serves carrot cake at a wedding and she doesn't want to be the first!!

We will be exploring the islands of Fiji by going on a cruise after the wedding. While we would love to have some privacy, we get to go on a boat with 40 people who we hope we will like. We also hope we don't get seasick, since the food is supposed to be good!