Your presence at our wedding is a gift in and of itself and we are so appreciative of your willingness to travel to be with us. We are SO sorry flights are insanely expensive! They’re not usually like this :( We do not expect anything, but if you would like to give us a wedding gift, we would prefer cash over a registry since we have acquired many items from living together. We hope to use any gifted money for a honeymoon adventure or new-house expenses.