Having built all the physical trappings of our life together over the last 8 1/2 years, we are not asking for any physical items on our registry. Instead, if you are comfortable giving a gift, we ask that you enrich us with your smiling faces and, if you are comfortable doing so, contribute to our newlywed/honeymoon fund to help us kick off married life with some much needed R&R after a month that will include some of us finishing jobs, others finishing school, moving back to New York, oh and that whole wedding thing.