We thought it was important to have someone capture this special day with close friends and family. It was out of our budget but we really wanted to be able to look back on this day with our kids and all of our loved ones. What better way than with a video.

What do we need to get the party vibes up? a DJ. They are very underrated. They are in charge of the mood. They orchestrate the entire event, keeping up with the flow. The bring so much more than just music to the event so I was not surprised at the cost of one. We would love to have help funding this!

We would love to capture beautiful moments as we enjoy the night. It would be such a gift to have a photographer on this day.

With all our kids, it's hard for us to get away for date. We typically take all the kids with us and this can get pricey. Dinner for two would require us to get a babysitter. That doesn't happen too often.