Living in Japan and having lived together for many years already, we simply do not want or need any physical gifts, especially nice (but fragile) plate or stemware or linens that would have to spend weeks being shipped home in the coming years. Many of you are already taking time off work and traveling a great distance, and we couldn't ask for anything more. We are spending our time here saving for our future home, and it would mean so much to us for friends and family to contribute to that goal. No one is obligated to gift us anything, but if you would like to, we'd love for you to contribute to helping us purchasing a home back in the US!