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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP as soon as you can so we can get everything set with our vendors! The deadline is August 7th, 2026 — four weeks before the big day.
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What if I can't make it?What if I can't make it?
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Your presence will be missed. We ask that you RSVP "No" as soon as possible. If you have already RSVP'd "Yes," but find that you will not be able to make it please notify the bride at (815) 414-3535.
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Is there a dress code?Is there a dress code?
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We are requesting semi-formal attire for the evening. We kindly ask you to refrain from wearing white, ivory, champagne, or cream color attire.
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What time should I arrive?What time should I arrive?
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Please arrive at least 30 minutes prior to the ceremony start time to find parking and your seat.
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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited capacity, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited. If you received a plus one, it will be addressed on your invitation and RSVP section of the website.
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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?
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To allow all guests to relax and enjoy themselves, we kindly request no children unless they are specifically invited.
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What are your wedding colors?What are your wedding colors?
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We chose a soft, earthy palette of tan and sage green to match the natural beauty of our venue.
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Where should I stay?Where should I stay?
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Thank you so much for traveling to celebrate with us—we truly appreciate it! We've included accommodations under the travel tab and have a room block at Starved Rock Lodge and Conference Center, which we recommend booking soon due to limited availability. You're not required to use these options, just hoping they help in your search. There are also many Airbnbs and other lodging options in the area.
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Can I take photos or videos during the ceremony?Can I take photos or videos during the ceremony?
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We're asking guests to honor our unplugged ceremony that means no phones, cameras, or tablets during the ceremony itself. Our photographer will capture everything, and we'll happily share photos with you later. Once the reception begins, feel free to take all the photos and videos your heart desires!