We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! Please only bring your child if they are 12+, and you have talked to the bride and groom.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.