FAQs
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What is the RSVP deadline?
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Please RSVP by no later than June 1st, 2026. Earlier is always appreciated! You can RSVP by clicking the tab in our website menu or mailing back the RSVP card included in your formal invitation.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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To ensure we can accommodate all of our guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. Thank you for your understanding!
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When should we arrive?
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Due to the Cathedral’s existing Mass schedule, our ceremony must begin promptly at 7:00 PM. We kindly request that guests plan to arrive 20-30 minutes early to ensure a timely and reverent start.
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Where should we park?
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Guests are welcome to use the complimentary parking lot located directly behind the church. A parking map will be included in your formal invitation for reference. Please keep in mind that vehicles cannot stay parked in this lot overnight or they are subject to being towed. If you’re able, we’d love for guests to Uber, share a ride, or walk to the wedding. This helps with limited parking—and makes celebrating afterward even easier!
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What should we wear?
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We’d love for guests to wear cocktail attire! Both the ceremony and the reception will take place indoors. Wear shoes that are comfortable for dancing or prepare to take them off! :)
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Will dinner be served?
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With our ceremony beginning at 7pm, we have opted not to serve a plated dinner. However, we’ll have a spread of hors d’oeuvres and desserts, plus an open bar. Eat, sip, and enjoy the party with us!
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Are children invited?
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While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults-only event. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kiddos at home so you can celebrate with us!
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Where are you registered?
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We are registered through Zola, as well as at Target and Crate & Barrel. You can find our registry by clicking the "Registry" tab on this site.
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~Further considerations~
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We are excited to enjoy the Cathedral of the Incarnation's beauty with you in the great Sacrament of Matrimony. As the Cathedral is a sacred space and protects the Real Presence of Our Lord Jesus in its tabernacle, we kindly ask that you treat the space with great care and concern. Please be respectful of the church and its atmosphere, and please do not leave any trash behind in the pews. We cannot wait to celebrate with you!
