Formal, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.
We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! Please book a babysitter to make that a reality and dance the night away!
If your RSVP says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.