As one of the most meaningful days of our lives, our wedding is both an exciting and emotional milestone—but it can also be a bit stressful. The greatest gift you can give us is your love, support, and positive energy! Your support during this time means everything to us. We kindly ask that everyone do their part to keep this a joyous and loving celebration. Trust that we’ve thoughtfully planned every detail of our wedding with love and to reflect our personalities. Your kindness, understanding, and love will help make this day truly unforgettable. We can’t wait to celebrate with you! If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out.
Yes, all events are by invitation only. Each invitation is tailored to specific celebrations, and we kindly ask you to RSVP accordingly. We appreciate your excitement and interest in our big day. However, our wedding is an intimate celebration with a carefully curated guest list. We kindly ask that you respect our decision and refrain from reaching out to request an invitation. When in doubt, please reach out to us and we will confirm who [all] is invited to which event. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with those who have been invited to join us on this special journey.
The Nikkah is the Pakistani marriage ceremony where the bride and groom exchange vows in the presence of witnesses, officiated by a priest or a religious scholar. It’s a solemn and sacred event, often followed by prayers and a celebratory meal. What to Wear: Opt for formal or traditional Indian/Pakistani attire, such as saris, lehengas, or kurta-pajamas. Modest clothing is preferred, as the ceremony is religious in nature. Etiquette: Arrive on time and be respectful during the ceremony.
The Dholki is a pre-wedding celebration filled with music, singing, and dancing, featuring the traditional dhol drum. It’s an informal and fun gathering where families come together to celebrate. What to Wear: Traditional colorful Indian/Pakistani outfits like salwar kameez or lehengas are encouraged. Comfortable attire is key, as dancing is a big part of the evening. Etiquette: Be ready to join in the singing and dancing—it’s all about enjoying the festivities!
The Mehndi is a colorful and vibrant celebration where henna is applied to the bride and guests. It’s filled with songs, dance performances, and cultural traditions. What to Wear: Bright, festive attire such as lehengas, anarkalis, or sherwanis. Guests are encouraged to embrace vibrant colors and traditional styles. Etiquette: Participation in the dances is welcome, and don’t hesitate to get some henna applied!
The Valima is the reception hosted by the groom’s family to celebrate the marriage. It’s a formal event, often featuring speeches, a meal, and plenty of well-wishing. What to Wear: Formal or traditional attire, such as elegant saris, suits, or sherwanis. This is the most formal of the events. Etiquette: Congratulate the couple and enjoy the festivities, including the food and music.
Yes! We encourage guests to wear formal or traditional Indian/Pakistani attire to fully embrace the cultural richness of the celebrations. Women are encouraged to wear elegant evening gowns or sophisticated cocktail dresses. You are also encouraged to wear lehengas or salwar suits in rich fabrics like silk or brocade with intricate embellishments. Men should opt for tuxedos or dark suits with a tie or bow tie. You may also choose regal sherwanis, kurta-pajamas, or bandhgalas for a classic look. Jewel tones, golds, and deep reds are especially fitting for the wedding ceremony. Enhance your attire with traditional jewelry and footwear to honor the cultural heritage of this beautiful day!
Yes, we are hosting a BYOB wedding! Guests are welcome to bring their favorite unopened beverages to share with others during the celebration. Upon arrival, please take your unopened beverages to the bar. The bartenders will handle them and make them available for all guests throughout the event. Professional bartenders will serve all drinks to ensure everything is handled safely and responsibly. Any leftover beverages will be managed by the couple or venue at the end of the night.
Yes, children are welcome. We understand that childcare can sometimes be tricky, and if bringing your children is unavoidable, they are welcome to join. If you bring your children, please remember that their care and supervision are your responsibility throughout the event. We’re not planning kid-specific activities or spaces. Feel free to bring quiet activities to keep them entertained if needed. We understand weddings can be overwhelming for little ones! If needed, step outside or to a quieter area to help them reset.
Yes, for safety and to ensure the smooth flow of the event, please keep children away from the following areas: Buffet (Food) Table: For everyone’s safety and to avoid spills. Bar: Alcoholic beverages are for adult guests only. Cake Table: To keep the cake safe until it’s time to cut it. Stage: Unless it’s during designated photo sessions with the couple or family.
If possible, consider arranging childcare for the evening so you can enjoy the event worry-free. We promise to provide plenty of updates, photos, and memories for you to share with them later!
Monetary gifts (in envelopes) are traditional and always appreciated. If you prefer, thoughtful items for our new home or personalized keepsakes are also wonderful options. You can bring your gift to the wedding. Handmade or unique gifts that reflect your personal touch are cherished, meaningful and welcomed. There will be a designated area for you to leave gifts and cards. You’re also welcome to send your gift to our home before or after the wedding. Our mailing address is included on the invitation or wedding website. We've created a registry and the details have been included with your invitation and on our wedding website. These are just suggestions—feel free to choose something meaningful to you!
Photos and videos are welcome during the reception events! You can upload your photos using the QR code provided on the tables at each event. This will help us create a shared album of memories from the celebration. We will have a professional photographer capturing all the special moments of the day. Please do not distract the photographer from their job. Their focus is on capturing the wedding events and ensuring the couple’s memories are beautifully documented. We ask that you respect our privacy and the timing of posting photos online, and DO NOT post images of the wedding. We will be selecting what images will be shared in the days following the event. You are more than welcome to post images of yourself at any time. When in doubt, ask us directly before uploading pictures to social media. Upload photos and videos under the "Things To Do" tab or at www.my.wedibox.com/recWaA2svgvlw6Ni6
Clean Your Lens: Wipe your camera lens for clear, smudge-free shots. Focus on Lighting and Stability: Use natural light, keep your phone steady, and tap to focus on your subject. Frame Thoughtfully: Use gridlines, experiment with angles, and capture candid moments for creative and balanced shots.
Absolutely! Weddings are a great opportunity to meet new people and connect with friends and family. Keep conversations light, friendly, and celebratory. If the conversation veers into uncomfortable territory, steer it back to lighter subjects. A polite response like, "Let’s focus on celebrating the couple today!" can help shift the tone. You can also share anecdotes or stories that you know the couple would be comfortable with others hearing. If in doubt, it’s better to keep it private.
To maintain a positive atmosphere, please avoid the following topics: Politics: Especially current or divisive issues. Current State of Affairs: Avoid heavy or distressing topics that could dampen the mood. Controversial Issues: Hot-button topics like religion, social issues, or debates. Offensive Jokes/Remarks: Humor is welcome, but be sensitive to others’ boundaries. Blunt Criticism: Refrain from openly critiquing the event, someone’s appearance, or their behavior.