We love your kids - But we want this to be your night off! The only kids at the wedding will be the flower girl and ring bearer and even they will be headed out early.
If the invitation says "And Guest", then yes. If not, we would prefer if it was just you!
Cocktail please! But we want you to be comfortable, so if the heels are too high and the buttons too tight, unbutton and throw off your heels and get into something you can dance in!