FAQs

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What is the address of Bonnet Island Estate?

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2380 East Bay Avenue Manahawkin, NJ 08050

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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The welcome event will begin at 4pm. We will begin the ceremony at 4:30pm prompt.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your formal invitation says “& Guest,” then yes. If not, we would prefer if it was just you.

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Can I bring my kids?

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We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! We kindly request no children.

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What is the dress code?

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Formal attire suggested.

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How do I get to the wedding venue? Will transportation be provided?

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Bonnet Island Estate is located at 2380 E Bay Avenue in Manahawkin, NJ 08050. If you are traveling from out of the state or country, you will need your own form of transportation to get to your hotel. Once you are ready to head to the venue, shuttle transportation will be provided to the venue location, and back to your hotel at the conclusion of the night.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes! There are approximately 85 parking spots. So carpooling may be a great option.

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What will the weather be like?

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The weather should be beautiful! Although we cannot perfectly predict November weather, carrying layers are always a good idea for this time of year!

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Will the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception take place indoors or outdoors?

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At Bonnet Island Estate we are graced with the pleasure of having both an indoor/outdoor ceremony and cocktail hour; weather permitting. We have indoor spaces for both events, as well as open outdoor spaces and covered outdoor spaces; however, reception will be held indoors. This is subject to be changed and coordinated day of, and will accommodate any weather variables.

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What type of food and drink will be served during the cocktail hour and reception?

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We'll be serving light passed hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour, followed by a three-course plated dinner and dessert

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I have dietary restrictions/allergies. What's the best way to let you know?

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Please include on your RSVP any dietary restrictions/allergies.

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Where will the ceremony be held?

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The ceremony will take place in the boat house chapel at Bonnet Island Estate.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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Welcome to our unplugged ceremony! You can take all the photos you want throughout the night! However, we kindly ask if you please honor our wishes, and do not take photos until we are pronounced Mr. & Mrs. We invite you to be fully present with us during our ceremony! We want to see your faces, rather than devices.

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Yes! Should you be feeling particularly generous, there are some things we would love to have for our new house we are building. There is a linked page on the Home Screen of our website with our Crate&Barrel & Zola registry.

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Can I bring a guest?

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If your invitation was addressed to you & “guest”; absolutely! If a guest is not included on your invitation, please respect our wishes.

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Can I bring my gift to the wedding?

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Your presence is present enough, but should you wish to bring a gift to our wedding, there will be a gift table for your convenience.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Absolutely!

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What's your wedding hashtag?

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#YaBettsIdo

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When will the reception end? Will there be an after-party?

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The reception will conclude at 10:30pm. We will be hosting an after part from 10:30pm - 12:30am. Join us if you'd like, we would love to have you for a couple more hours of fun!

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What health and safety measures will you be taking during the event?

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Our highest priority is keeping all loved ones safe. Please take careful consideration that you are feeling your absolute best, and are not exhibiting any cold symptoms on the day of the wedding. We understand some may not feel comfortable attending, and we will understand if on the day of, you are not able to. At this time, we feel that you should take any necessary independent safety measures you feel are appropriate. Masks are welcome, although we will not be requiring face-coverings at our event.

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How will you communicate any updated information and/or changes before the wedding?

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Any updates or changes made will be posted on here for your convenience! Check back anytime!