Our story began, of all places, on Hinge. An unseen message traveled across cities and sat for eight months, a testament to our mutual "lazy swiping" styles. When our profiles finally aligned, we set up a first date without "delay". Had to reschedule twice, because the restaurant did not open on Monday and Shane's bathroom was under construction. Finally, we met at Burger Stand in Topeka. We connected instantly over a great and nerdy talk about our careers, travels, and investments. The chemistry was undeniable, and as the date came to a close, Shane asked if he could kiss Xin before they went their separate ways. She said yes, and we've been inseparable ever since.

Amidst the serene Golden Temple in Xin's hometown of Kunming, China, Shane found a quiet, greenery, and rock-paved path. There, he knelt and, with a simple, heartfelt "Babe, you want to get married?", completely surprised Xin. Through happy tears, she said, "Yes!"