We're getting married!

Erica’s version: On an almost spring day, the first Friday of March, 2023, I was meeting friends at Killjoy Cocktail bar to celebrate my birthday. Previous nights at Killjoy had produced fond memories of running into high school friends the night before the Dreamville Concert, birthday celebrations, or just making summer extra magical with a DJ who knew the right mix of hip hop and R&B. I expected this would be another night with a good-enough set and spritzy drinks. After doing a lap or two, my friends and I settled into a nook to scope the room and vibe. As my friends and I finished lamenting about the lack of male prospects and were getting ready to head out, I committed to one last lap around the bar in my black halter midi dress which led me to Xavier. This tall guy with a smile in a T-shirt looked down and said, “Hey, you look like you could help me work out.” I said, “Oh really? Maybe I can.” He proceeded to make small talk and we found a connection to Raleigh and Chapel Hill. He asked for my number, which I gave to him, and then I went on my way. The next morning he called me before 9am, when he was on his way to work. I was surprised to get a phone call from a guy the next day, let alone before 12pm on a Saturday. He set up a date for the following Tuesday and we’ve been dating ever since. Xavier's version So the best man for this wedding called me on March 3rd and said, “Hey, we are going out.” I humbly accepted and went to Killjoy cocktail bar. We got a section outside and I saw Erica. We made eye contact as she walked in. She had on a black dress and a big smile. When I saw her, it was as if she was floating in slow motion, like in the movies. So, I played it cool and walked inside like a few moments later, but I couldn't find her. I gave it another round later on, trying to still play it cool and walked in looking for her…..not like a stalking way… but in an Oh, what a wonderful surprise kinda way. Even after this time, I didn't see her, so I went to the bar and grabbed a refreshment. I turned around after paying the bartender, and Boom!!! There she was. It was perfect because she snuck up on me, so I couldn't even get nervous. I said, “Hey, you look like you work out. Can you help me out?” I tell my friends, (shooters shoot)! Erica and I had a pleasant conversation and I got her number. I remember walking away from her thinking, That it was different. The next morning, I texted her (by the way, I've never done this before in my life) and she replied. Fifteen minutes later I called her and told her it was nice to meet her. Then I told her, “Look, I don't know what you have going on, but I don't date just to date and I am only looking for someone serious and something real.” She gave me positive feedback, and we have been together ever since. I told y'all shooters shoot!