FAQs

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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

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The dress code for our wedding is business casual/Texas formal attire. Think long floral dresses, cocktail dresses, button down shirts, blazers, khaki/dress pants. Jeans are allowed, no holes and no shorts. Our wedding colors are sage green and lavender. Feel free to go along with the color scheme, or wear whatever you like.

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What will the weather be like this time of year?

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Early June in Traverse City, Michigan averages around highs in the mid 70's to lows in the low 50's, with a 35% change of rain. May want to bring a nice jacket to match your outfit in case it is on the cooler end.

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Where are the ceremony and the reception taking place?

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The ceremony and reception are at 2 different locations. The ceremony will be held at the barn on Jake's grandparents' property, and the reception will be on a lawn in a tent on Jake's parents' property. See schedule tab for specific addresses.

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be taking place in an indoor barn, however you will have to walk through the outdoor grass. The reception will be held outdoors in a lawn. We recommend cowboy boots, flat-soled shoes, wedges, or wide healed shoes to avoid sinking into the grass.

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What time should I arrive?

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Help us get the party started as scheduled! The ceremony starts promptly at 4pm. We recommend that you arrive an hour before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is seated on time. Venue opens at 3pm for guest arrival, and please plan to be seated no later than 3:45pm. Out of respect for the couple, and their guests, late arrivals will not be permitted once the processional has begun.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, the wedding party will be taking pictures nearby for around an hour. Guests can head straight to the reception location, where we will be serving appetizers and beverages during a cocktail hour.

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Will there be food and drinks during cocktail hour?

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After the wedding ceremony, we will head over to the reception venue and be serving light appetizers accompanied by an open bar truck We invite you to toast to our nuptials with a curated selection of on tap wine, beer, and our signature his+hers mocktails for those who are like the bride and don't drink alcohol.

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Will dinner be served at the reception? What kind of food? Allergy Safe?

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We will have a buffet style dinner at the reception. There will be 2 selections of protein, and various side dishes so please choose your desired plate as you wish. Additionally, as the bride and groom have food sensitivities, all of the meals will be dairy and soy free. We will also have labels next to each item labeling allergens in each dish for those of you with other allergies/sensitivities. If you are vegan/vegetarian please let the bride or groom know as soon as possible. We want to make sure everyone can eat.

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When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail back my RSVP or can I do it online?

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RSVP deadline is no later than April 6, 2026. Your invitations will come with a QR code that takes you directly to the RSVP page to avoid delays and complications. All guests in your party will be included in the RSVP under your official name, as well as all of the events you are invited to. Please RSVP for everyone in your party.

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Can I bring a plus one? Are kids welcome?

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Our celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation. Most guests already have included plus ones or children included, however if they are not included on your RSVP, then unfortunately, no additions can be made. We have a strict guest list to stay on budget.

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Am I invited to the rehearsal dinner?

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Due to the space limitations of our diner venue, we unfortunately have to limit the rehearsal dinner guest list to those who will be playing a role in the ceremony and their spouses. We apologize in advance to those who are not included.

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Where should guests park? Is parking free?

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At both the ceremony and reception locations there is space for free parking around the venues. We will have signs posted for easy navigation.

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Are the ceremony and reception location handicap accessible?

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Yes! We will have golf carts to help take elderly/disabled folks to and from the parking to the venues. The parking is not far, however the terrain can be slightly difficult. Additionally, we will have ushers to help escort those inside the ceremony venue as well.

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Will transportation be provided between the to and from the hotel, ceremony and reception?

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Yes, there will be provided transportation after the reception only. The venues are very close to each-other; about one block down the street, easy to drive to and from with guided parking. There will be no alcohol at the ceremony so everyone should be able to drive from the ceremony to the reception. There is plenty of parking and if you plan on heavily drinking, and do not have a designated drive to get you back to your hotel, you have every permission to leave your car at the reception venue and get have our provided transportation take you back to where you are staying. You can come get your car in the morning.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests? Where do you recommend I stay?

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We do not have a room block. However, we did some of the research for you and found options for all price ranges. Please see the travel tab for more details on places to stay around the area.

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Where are you registered?

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We are so thankful you will be joining us for this celebration of our love. While gifts are not expected, we have registered for a few items we would love as newlywed. A link to our wedding registry can be found on the Registry tab.

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Should I bring a gift to your destination wedding?

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Since you’re traveling for our wedding, making the trip is a gift in itself — physical gifts are absolutely not necessary! If you do choose to browse our wedding registry, however, any items on the list can be shipped directly to our home address. We will also have a box for cards at the entrance table of the reception if you chose to bring one.