If your invitation says "and Guest." then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
If your invitation says "and family" or the names of your kids, sure! Otherwise, please arrange for a babysitter and get ready for a great night off.
Black tie optional please
Yes.
Amy feels your pain! There will be plenty of gluten free options. If you have a different special request, please let us know and we will look into any options.