We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! Please make proper arrangements.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” or if we have already put in your spouse or significant other then yes. If not, we would prefer if it was just you. If you would like to replace someone with someone else, contact the bride to change it to Guest.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.