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FAQs

If you have any questions that are not listed here, please reach out to Alyssa or Ben directly. Thank you!
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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! We kindly request that guests adhere to a formal dress code for our wedding. This means elegant and sophisticated attire—men are encouraged to wear a suit, while women are invited to wear a gown or a stylish cocktail dress. We look forward to celebrating with you in your finest attire!

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Can I bring a date?

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Guests are welcome to bring a date only if the individual is listed by name on the invitation or if the option to RSVP for a 'guest' is provided. We kindly ask for your understanding as we are keeping the event intimate!

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we love your children, we regretfully cannot accommodate everyone's children at our wedding. If your children are invited, your formal wedding invitation will be made out to "The ____ Family". Additionally, your children will be listed by name when you RSVP. We realize that this may impact your plans and want to ensure that you have plenty of time to arrange for childcare. We hope that you will still be able to join us and look forward to celebrating with you!

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Will there be any other events or gatherings for those who are unable to attend the wedding?

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Yes, we plan on having a small celebration (locally in Tulsa, OK) as newlyweds for those who are unable to attend the wedding. Details to come.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony begins at 4:30pm. We kindly request that guests arrive around 4:00pm.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by August 1st. Unfortunately, if we haven’t received your RSVP by then, we’ll have to assume you’re unable to attend and you won’t be included in the final guest list.

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I have a food allergy/dietary restriction, can I make a special request?

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Yes, we want to ensure everyone has a great experience! Please let us know about your food allergy or restrictions, and we'll do our best to accommodate your needs.