FAQs

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Where are you registered?

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Your love and presence on our special day are the greatest gifts we could ask for. We are not registered for gifts, but if you feel moved to give, we would be deeply grateful for a donation to a cause close to our hearts: the Little Sisters of the Poor in San Pedro. Their mission supports the most vulnerable in the community, and your generosity would mean so much to us. You can make a donation directly through their website in the name of the Patrick Herman & Christina Wickers Wedding: https://littlesistersofthepoor.org/. Thank you for sharing in our joy and for your kindness and support!

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What is the attire "cocktail to formal"?

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For Men Cocktail to Formal: As for shoes, select a nice pair of dress shoes that match your belt. A suit and tie are considered cocktail attire. The colors for the suits can be darker hues and lighter colors or blues. Men’s formal attire typically includes a dark suit, dress shirt, tie, and dress shoes. It can also include a blazer or sport coat with dress trousers, and if you want to honor tradition, reserve the creative flourishes for the accessories. For Women Cocktail: Think of it as that sweet spot between casual and black-tie—formal, but not too formal. Mini and midi dresses that feel polished, chic jumpsuits, or tailored suiting paired with elevated accessories. The key is looking dressy enough for champagne toasts while still being able to hit the dance floor. In other words: sophisticated but actually fun to wear. Women's Formal: A black tie dress code typically means wearing a long, floor-length evening gown, a formal cocktail dress or stylish suit. Think elegant and sophisticated when choosing your outfit, and avoid anything too casual.