Whitney & StephenWhitney & Stephen
Wedding PartyWedding Party
Allison KindsethAllison Kindseth
Matron of Honor
My OG bestie and the best big sis around. Fun fact: Allison is the reason I exist—she specifically asked Mom and Dad for a little sister, and they delivered. I’ve been following in her footsteps ever since, from attending the same college and pledging the same sorority, to, yes, also marrying a lawyer.
Chris BandrowskyChris Bandrowsky
Best Man
Chris has been my rock the past 30+ years. I’ve been fortunate enough to have a brother that’s also one of my best friends. He’s always supported me and has a knack for keeping things lighthearted and fun. I’m incredibly thankful that he’ll be with me as my best man at my wedding.
Jackson SmithJackson Smith
Bridesman
Jackson is my oldest friend, dating back to 8th grade when I was the new kid at school. We bonded over stage-managing a chaotic middle school production of Peter Pan—nothing brings people together like pre-teen theater! Throughout high school, I spent so much time in Jackson’s basement that his parents had to keep a stash of Diet Coke at all times (thanks, Gail!)
Nick VielhauerNick Vielhauer
Groomsman
When Nick and I met, we didn’t think we’d end up friends. During a high school open house, our moms introduced us, saying “Oh, you’ll both be freshman, wouldn’t it be great if you two became friends.” Nick and I smiled, rolled our eyes, said “Yeah, sure…”, figuring that’d never happen… Yet, a few weeks into freshman year we were inseparable, hanging out most weekends, visiting each other in college and eventually becoming roommates.
Samson EberhartSamson Eberhart
Bridesman
Samson and I almost missed out on being friends, despite running in the same circles and living in the same freshman dorm at DU. But once we started dating two best friends (and roommates), we quickly bonded. Fast forward a decade, and we’re still with those two guys and closer than ever.
Patrick SutherlandPatrick Sutherland
Groomsman
Patrick and I met Day 1 of college and quickly formed a trio with our future roommate and fellow grooms-party member, Amy. In addition to helping me survive and thrive in college, Patrick has always been a great friend for “nerding out” about the world. From Marvel and Star Wars, to outer space and politics, conversations with Patrick are deep, knowledgeable and fun. Plus, he’s introduced me to so many of my favorite TV shows (including Parks & Recreation, Community and The West Wing, to name a few).
Alyssa WongAlyssa Wong
Bridesmaid
I owe my friendship with Alyssa to Nick, who met her first at the University of Colorado Boulder, where they quickly became besties. After graduation, Nick transplanted Alyssa into our Denver-based friend group, and the rest is history. We got especially close during those first post-college years, exploring Denver and figuring out life, and learning to be bougie adults who fit in at a vineyard (well, we’ve *almost* mastered that).
Amy FlansburgAmy Flansburg
Groomswoman
Amy and I met Day 1 of college and quickly formed a trio with our future roommate and fellow grooms-party member, Patrick. She’s been an incredibly supportive friend that helped me break out of my introvert shell in college, and a fantastic whiskey-drinking partner. And (somewhat importantly), in 2013, Amy had a chance encounter with Whitney at a wine night and decided to play matchmaker. Thanks to her, I met Whitney and, well, now we’re here.
Sara SchmidtSara Schmidt
Bridesmaid
Sara and I can’t remember exactly how or when we met at the University of Michigan (classic business school story), but our friendship was solidified while co-leading a Mystery Trek through lesser-traveled European cities for incoming first-years. What happens in Sunny Beach, Bulgaria definitely doesn’t stay there, since we came back with a wealth of hilarious stories and a great friendship. After graduation, our bond only grew stronger when we both landed in San Francisco.
Vince MarchettaVince Marchetta
Groomsman
Vince and I were in the same class section our first year of law school. When we weren’t studying together for our classes like Civil Procedure or Contracts or for the Bar exam, Vince helped me make the most of life in Los Angeles and outside of law school. There were numerous days “studying” at the beach, eating at ShopHouse (RIP), playing video games and going to incredible concerts.
Jack KindsethJack Kindseth
Ring Bearer
Jack is Whitney's favorite (and only) nephew, and at 5 years old, he keeps us laughing and on our toes. Whether we’re canoeing up at the cabin or playing “kitchen” and cooking meals out of his blocks, time with Jack is always the highlight of our trips to Minnesota.
Eleanor BandrowskyEleanor Bandrowsky
Flower Girl
Eleanor is Stephen’s sweet niece who just celebrated her rubber duck themed 3rd birthday, and we absolutely adore her. She’s already a big hockey fan, proudly carrying on the tradition of cheering for the University of Denver Pioneers, our alma mater. She brings so much light and love to our family!
Pegi & Tom HarknessPegi & Tom Harkness
Parents of the Bride
My parents, Pegi and Tom, are the best I could ever ask for. Their unconditional love, endless encouragement, and constant support have meant everything to me. Whether it was driving me to swim meets in the middle of nowhere, signing me up for Spanish classes, buying me all the instruments I could dream of learning, or shuttling me to school in St. Paul, they invested in my future at every step. I’m so grateful for everything they’ve done to help me achieve my dreams.
Cindy & Steve BandrowskyCindy & Steve Bandrowsky
Parents of the Groom
I would not have gotten anywhere without my parents, Cindy and Steve. They’ve supported me throughout it all - Boy Scouts, tennis lessons, swim team, AP classes in high school, business school and an MBA at DU, law school at UCLA and becoming a lawyer in the Bay Area. I’m incredibly grateful for all of their love and support throughout the years (especially the high school years, when I’m sure I was an insufferable teen) and can’t wait to celebrate with them in August!