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The Wedding Website of Carly McKay and Robert Westerhoff
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May I bring a plus one or date?

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Due to limited venue capacity, please only RSVP for yourself and those listed on your formal invitation. Thank you!

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Are my children invited?

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While we love all the children in our lives, we are unfortunately unable to accommodate them outside of immediate family. Please refer to your invitation, and thank you for making childcare arrangements in advance if needed! We can't wait to celebrate with you!

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When should I RSVP?

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We ask that you RSVP as soon as possible, no later than June 1st of 2026. Please note that if we don't receive an RSVP by June 1st, 2026, we will not be able to accommodate your attendance.

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What can I do if I can’t make it?

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As much as we'd love to see you for our big day, we understand you may have prior arrangements. If you must, please mark your RSVP as unable to attend and/or message the bride/groom. Your attendance will be missed greatly!

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What if I don’t RSVP?

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If you don’t RSVP, it will be assumed you are unable to attend. Please RSVP no later than June 1st, 2026.

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Can I take photos/videos during the ceremony?

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No, our ceremony will be “unplugged.” We are paying a wonderful photographer to capture our special moments to be shared with everyone at a later date! Please refrain from any photography during our ceremony; all photos are welcome during the reception!

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What's for dinner?

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TBD

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Is the bar open?

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What's a wedding without an open bar!? We will be serving several beverages, including wine, specialty cocktails, tea, coffee, and lemonade. Water will be served during dinner and throughout the reception.

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Where do I sit?

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During our ceremony, we ask that you pick a seat, not a side, you are all loved by the groom and bride! The first two rows of seating will be reserved for immediate family. During the reception, we will have assigned seating by table.

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Do I have to bring a gift?

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We are so appreciative of your attendance, love, and support! Gifts are not required, but appreciated. If you feel inclined to gift the groom and bride, we have a registry linked on the website. Thank you!

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What is there to do?

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During our reception, please enjoy the fire pit with s'mores, and luscious greenery around our venue, though you may find the bride and groom on the dance floor!

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Is smoking allowed?

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Smoking is not allowed inside our venue. You may smoke outside, but are required to use ashtrays.

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What do I wear?

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Formal or cocktail attire is strongly encouraged; we'd love to see you dressed your best, especially for photos! Please no jeans, graphic tees, etc. Our venue will have fall colors, greens, browns, burgundys, pinks, and mauves highly encouraged! Please avoid wearing white; you may be subject to an "accidental" wine spillage!

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Are the reception and ceremony at the same location?

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Yes! Our ceremony and reception will be held at the same location, which will be on your invitation.

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