Wedding Party

Jenny and Stephen Weaver

Officiant

Apostle Jenny and Stephen Weaver have been pillars in Wesley and Mandee's marriage. When Mandee joined Apostle Jenny's mentorship in 2021, they immediate saw the calling on her life and the restoration for their marriage. Through classes, one on one conversations, counseling and friendship, they helped Mandee and Wesley find their way back to each other, put God at the center of their marriage and household, and help them learn how to serve each other and the Lord well. Mandee and Wesley are forever grateful for the example the Weaver's are of kingdom marriage and what doing ministry together looks like. They are honored to have them officiate their wedding as their leaders, mentors, Apostles and friends.

Naya Costner

Maid of Honor

Naya has been in Mandee’s life since she was 3 years old! They grew up as cousins which quickly turned into best friends and sisters as they became adults. Naya has been with Mandee through every season of her life and has never judged nor left her side. She is 10 years younger, but full of wisdom which she has used to keep Mandee focused on life and relationship goals. Naya is truly Mandee’s living diary and she cannot imagine life, let alone her wedding day, without her as her maid of honor.

Nicole Irizarry

Matron of Honor

Nicole and Mandee met about 4 years ago through their daughters! They instantly became best friends and absolutely had to involve their Moms so they can sleep over whenever they wanted lol! Nicole and Mandee instantly connected and over the years have cried together, prayed together, laughed together and have made so many beautiful memories including Nicole’s own wedding earlier this year. Nicole is a beautiful example of what a loyal trustworthy Godly friend looks like. They truly had no choice but to be friends according to Isa and Caydence, but thankfully they love each other so much naturally and continue to do life together with their daughters and families.

James Day

Groomsman

Jimmy Dia. My Brotha, its been a few years since we met but a lot has happened in that time. It’s hard to meet true friends as an adult but he came in and became family. I appreciate all the talks and knowledge we bounce off of one another. He was there for me in a very rough, dark time and helped me keep my eyes on the God and for that I am forever grateful. Looking forward to compounds and farmland!

Ciara Griffin

Bridesmaid

Ciara is a very close friend and sister in Christ to Mandee. They met through the Core Group about 2 years ago and the Lord has used Ciara to mentor, pray over, and just do life with Mandee along with their Husbands and children. She has always been a prayer warrior and a beautiful example of a Kingdom-minded wife and mother. Mandee looks forward to having Ciara by her side to represent Godly forever friendship as she renews her vows before God and loved ones.

Josh Griffin

Groomsman

Pastor Josh has been a beautiful addition to our story in this last year. Along with his wife Ciara, they have helped us see what a Godly marriage is and how to heal from past trauma so we can walk into this next season as 2 whole individuals coming together as one. Josh has been an inspiration to Wesley and pushes him to use his gifts. Through their counseling, fellowship, and love, they have become such great friends and ministry partners. We look forward to a continued friendship and seeing how their marriage will fortify ours. We love you both and your babies dearly!

Jaxson & Vaiden

Ring Bearer

Mandee and Wesley's little miracles! They planned on having one more child and were blessed with twins! Jaxson and Vaiden are such a beautiful addition to their family. Full of personality and a reflection of both parents. Each are so unique and keep their parents on their toes! Jaxson and Vaiden have been talking about this wedding almost everyday for the last year. They love that they are now "here from heaven" to enjoy this wedding since they were with Jesus for the first one. They are just too cute! Wesley and Mandee can't wait to have them walk down the isle as their ring bearers and share this special day with them.

Charlize Santana

Junior Bridesmaid

Caydence

Flower Girl

Mandee and Wesley's first child together. Caydence has always been their glue and inspiration. She is truly an angel on earth and teaches them how to love each other well. Caydence has a heart for people, cares about others feelings and does everything she can to be the light in the room. Now 12, she is mature beyond her years and has always believed, and spoken, that her parents will be together forever and she wouldn't have it any other way. Mandee's mini-me and best friend, she stands by her side as a reminder of how far Wesley and Mandee have come since her birth. She is an amazing daughter to them both and so excited to be part of their special day.

Fernando Rivadeneira

Best Man

Unfortunately, Fernando couldn't make it to the wedding but he is an essential part of our family as Wesley's best friends of over 35 years and Caydence Godfather, so we are keeping his spotlight here. We love you!! Man what can I say about this guy here?! We first met at seven corners daycare in the Bronx at the age of 5. Crazy, we have known one another longer than the Mrs has been alive lol. This is my brother; the only thing that could make it more real is blood. No amount of distance or time between us changes a thing. We always pick up right where we left off. This is my right hand guy and its an honor to be able to do life with a man of his integrity and strength. I couldn’t imagine anyone but him to be my best man. Love you brotha!

Lavinia Avalo

Mother of the Groom

Cassandra Santiago

Mother of the Bride

Vincent

Best Man

Mandee’s first born baby boy! Vince is now 16 and almost a grown man! He and Mandee have a very special bond, almost as if Vince was giving Mandee away to Wesley. Before he came along, it was Mandee and Vince against the world. He has become such a mature young man and has truly seen the ups and downs of Wes and Mandee’s relationship. He has always embraced Wes as his Dad and continues to be such a great son to them both. Now that he is older, Vince and Wes have created a special bond and is the best man to stand by his side for this day.