FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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As it helps us plan an even better experience, please RSVP as soon as you can. The cut off date to RSVP will be April 15, 2026.

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What is the dress code?

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Ceremony and Reception: The theme is black tie garden party. This means black tuxedoes for the men, and for the women, wear your finest floor length florals and/or pastels. Please visit our What to Wear page for a little inspiration. Regarding heels, there will be parts of the evening that take place on gravel / grass so be mindful of your shoe choice.

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Is there a dedicated hotel block for guests?

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Yes! We have a hotel block with The Eastbury Hotel & Spa. There are additional cute options within the town of Sherborne but the bus will only be stopping at The Eastbury.

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Is transportation provided to events?

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Transportation will be provided for guests at our dedicated hotel block on the wedding day. Please visit our "Getting There & Where to Say" page for further information.

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Are children welcome?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only event. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the children off-site so you can celebrate with us. For those that need babysitting services, one option recommended by the venue is Pitch Up and Play (HTTPS://WWW.PITCHUPANDPLAY.CO.UK)

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive at Brympton for 2:30 to enjoy a pre-ceremony drink. The latest to arrive would be 3:15 as the festivities will begin promptly.

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Will the wedding be outside?

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We will be using various sites at Brympton House, including both indoors and outdoors. If it rains, there are inclement weather options on site.

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What if I have food allergies and/or dietary restrictions?

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Please share any food allergies or restrictions on your RSVP. We want to assure you that these are taken seriously!

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What if I RSVPed yes but can no longer attend?

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Your presence will be greatly missed, but we understand life events can change your ability to join us. We just ask that you contact us immediately as RSVPing yes but not showing would affect a few things on our end.

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What do I need to visit England?

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Guests traveling from the U.S. will need a valid passport with at least six months’ validity beyond the travel dates. Additionally, the UK has a new requirement - Electronic Travel Authorization. Please remember to fill this out online in plenty of time to receive approval.

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What if I have a question that was not answered here?

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Please feel free to email johnmaryleto@gmail.com to ask any questions not answered here!