There is a gravel parking lot next to the barn and across from where we are having the ceremony (weather pending).
The attire for the wedding is rustic formal optional, which is more formal than casual, but more relaxed than black tie. It’s dressy but relaxed, with an earthy feel. The colors for the wedding are pastels so guests are welcome to wear pastels to match, but again this is optional! We will be outside for the ceremony and in the grass parking lot, so I would recommend a block heel or wedge for the women but again, just a suggestion.