Children are more than welcome at all events! The wedding will be on a lake, however, with no barriers between wedding and water, so depending on the kid might require fairly active supervision. If you are planning on bringing your kids, let us know so we can loop them into the celebration. :)
The very best option would be to fly into Huntsville Airport. Luckily for y'all, Delta just added a nonstop flight from NYC to Huntsville (~45 minute drive). Birmingham (~1 hour drive) has pretty good flight options too. As we get closer to the date, we can try and coordinate some carpools from the airports for people!
Friday Night Cookout: very casual; wear anything Saturday Scavenger Hunt: hiking /athletic clothes Wedding & Reception: semi-formal attire requested (suit and tie for men / cocktail dresses, gowns, or equivalent for women) (the wedding will be on grass so choose footwear accordingly) Lake Day: bring a bathing suit in case it's warm enough to swim