We are getting married on the island of O'ahu. We will be getting married within the Ko Olina resort and highly suggest staying onsite within Ko Olina or in the town of Kapolei (see our "Travel" page for hotel options) for at least Wednesday-Saturday, as our welcome party is early Thursday afternoon. If you elect to stay in Waikiki or elsewhere during wedding events, please account for traffic as westbound traffic out of the city can take an hour to get to our wedding venue. However, we highly suggest staying elsewhere before or after the wedding if you are extending your trip. Ko Olina is secluded and expensive, and Kapolei is more residential. For first time visitors, we suggest staying in Waikiki (our favorite hotels are The Royal Hawaiian or The Laylow). From there, you can rent a car or use Uber to visit other areas around the island.
There is so much to do on O'ahu, but our other favorite islands to explore are Big Island and Kaua'i. You can visit other islands for a night or two, or even a day trip! Hawaiian Air offers frequent flights to all islands. Please text Torie or Vince and we will provide you detailed suggestions depending on the island(s) you are visiting! We've included brief highlights for each island below and our O'ahu favorites on the "Things To Do" tab, but will be more than happy to send over more details to you directly.
Oʻahu: The most visited island, home to Honolulu and Waikiki Beach. Ideal for those who want a mix of city life, iconic landmarks like Pearl Harbor, and beautiful beaches. Maui: Known for luxury resorts, the scenic Road to Hāna, and sunrise at Haleakalā. Great for couples who want a relaxing beach vacation mixed with some adventure. Kauaʻi: The lush “Garden Isle” with dramatic cliffs, waterfalls, and quiet charm. Perfect for outdoor adventurers and those seeking a more scenic trip. Big Island (Hawaiʻi Island): Offers volcanoes, black sand beaches, and diverse climates. Best for travelers interested in hiking and unique landscapes. Lānaʻi: A small, quiet island with upscale resorts and rugged terrain. Ideal for a peaceful retreat.
Agricultural restrictions: Do not bring any produce or agricultural items in or out of the state. This includes any fruit you may have purchased at your home airport- it must be consumed before landing or discarded, as taking it off the plane is not allowed. You'll also need to fill out an agriculture form on the plane which the flight attendants will provide, so keep a pen handy in your carry-on. Getting around: Renting a car is highly recommended for convenience during your visit. Remember that life moves at a slower pace here, so plan ahead for traffic, especially during peak hours. Please refrain from honking, as this is highly frowned upon on the island.
Our wedding will be an adults-only celebration aside from our wedding party. Please text Torie or Vince if you need help finding reliable childcare on the island- we're happy to help.
To keep our wedding intimate, we've limited our guest list to only those invited by name on the invitations.
Please reach out to Torie (908) 727-0009 or Vince (914) 715-6628 with any questions. You can also reach us via e-mail at thepazienzawedding@gmail.com.